Sunday, December 16, 2018

Seeking Christ and the True Meaning of Christmas


I gave this talk today in two wards. This is the text I used for the English-speaking ward. The talk for the Spanish-speaking ward was similar.
I felt blessed to speak on the true meaning of Christmas.
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My dear brothers and sisters, I am grateful to be with you today, to worship with you and to feel of the Spirit.
I am blessed to be here by assignment this morning. And I am grateful for my speaking companion.
I pray that Spirit will be with us, and that we may all be enlightened by the things we will hear and feel.
I love Christmas season. I have always loved Christmas season. The festive decorations, the gifts, and the friendly greetings make it a happy time. Most of us spend time with family, and this usually strengthens family ties as we enjoy traditions that have been passed down through generations.
Of course, the holiday music is my favorite part of the season. There are so many good songs, whether they are Christmas hymns, Christmas carols, or just seasonal songs. They all tend to make me feel happy.
We sing “it’s the most wonderful time of the year;” we dream of a white Christmas; sing of a blue Christmas and even a green Christmas. We sing about Santa, and dancing snowmen (until the alligators knock him down--seriously), and flying reindeer; about silver bells and how cold it is outside. We sing about gifts we want: my two front teeth, a hippopotamus, and a little baby doll that will cry, sleep, drink and wet.
Even Christmas movies seem to be all about love, family, and peace on earth: very desirable things.
But I think that all the fun tends to distract us from what we are really celebrating at this sacred season. Today is Beethoven’s birthday, but that’s not the reason we are celebrating.
At Christmas, we celebrate the birth of a child, the baby Jesus, who came to earth to fulfill Heavenly Father’s plan for our salvation. No gift compares to that.
I am grateful to belong to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. When I was baptized, I covenanted to take the name of Jesus Christ upon me. As I took the sacrament with you this morning, I witnessed to Heavenly Father, along with each of you, that I am willing to take upon me the name of His Son and always remember him.
As I do this, I am identifying myself as one who seeks Christ.
We enjoy singing about those who are the best-known seekers of Christ: the Magi, or wise men. There is a great deal of Christmas mythology surrounding these men, but the fact is that we know very little of them.
Matthew tells us that they came to Herod some time after the birth of Christ, having followed a star that guided them.
We read that they asked: “Where is he that is born King of the Jews? for we have seen his star in the east, and are come to worship him.
“When Herod the king had heard these things, he was troubled, and all Jerusalem with him.”[1]
This is just my own thinking, but certainly that star was visible to everyone. Did only this group of wise foreigners notice it and realize its significance? Will we pay attention to the stars in our lives and be led by them?
After Herod’s scholars searched the scriptures, they sent the wise men to Bethlehem in Judea. Herod requested that they return and inform him of the king’s whereabouts, so that he could also worship him.
Of course, that wasn’t why Herod was seeking Jesus. He was very insecure and was concerned about this other King of the Jews taking his place.
And so we discover that the wise men found Jesus and worshiped him, and gave him gifts that were appropriate to one of royal birth: gold, frankincense, and myrrh. These are not your typical baby shower gifts; they weren’t practical at all, but they were rich in symbolism.
We know that the wise men were warned not to return to report to Herod, so they took a different route home. Mary, Joseph and Jesus had to flee the country to escape Herod, and they became a refugee family for a time.
We should remember that even though Israel was in a state of apostasy at this time, there were many faithful Israelites, Jews, who knew the scriptures and were looking forward to the coming of the Messiah.
I believe that the shepherds, to whom the angel chorus appeared, were not ignorant, illiterate laborers. I think they were faithful, watchful Jews, who were aware of the prophecies and promises associated with Christ’s coming.
Having said that, let’s turn to Luke. He tells us that the shepherds said after the angelic chorus departed:
“Let us now go even unto Bethlehem, and see this thing which is come to pass, which the Lord hath made known unto us.
“And they came with haste, and found Mary, and Joseph, and the babe lying in a manger.
“And when they had seen it, they made known abroad the saying which was told them concerning this child.
“And all they that heard it wondered at those things which were told them by the shepherds.”[2]
Their words show an understanding of what was happening. Notice that they “came with haste.” This suggests that they were very much aware of what the angels’ message meant, and hurried to see for themselves. And they did not keep the experience to themselves. They made it known abroad.
All they that heard it wondered; probably because they did not hear it from those who were considered the wise and formally trained, but from common folk. This seemed to be outside the norm for them. But we know that the Lord doesn't work within man's norms.
Simeon and Anna[3] were two devout Jews who sought Jesus. They both served in the temple. Both had been promised that they would see the Messiah. When Mary and Joseph took their infant to the temple to present him to the Lord, as the law required, they recognized Jesus for who he was, the Promised Messiah for whom the Jews waited.
The scriptures tell us of many others who sought the Christ, and not just to draw near to him, but to be like him. They understood the importance of becoming his disciples.
In our day, we have been commanded to seek Christ. Of course, our covenant to take his name upon us commits us to seek him.
But in the Doctrine and Covenants, we are told:
“ye shall call upon me while I am near—
“Draw near unto me and I will draw near unto you; seek me diligently and ye shall find me; ask, and ye shall receive; knock, and it shall be opened unto you”.[4]
Please note that the Savior promises us that we shall find him. (And note that the imperative shall adds extra weight to the promise.)
In the Book of Mormon, the prophet Amaleki summarizes the core message of the Book of Mormon when he counsels:
“And now, … I would that ye should come unto Christ, who is the Holy One of Israel, and partake of his salvation, and the power of his redemption. Yea, come unto him, and offer your whole souls as an offering unto him, and continue in fasting and praying, and endure to the end; and as the Lord liveth ye will be saved”.[5]
Moroni closes the Book of Mormon with similar counsel:
“Yea, come unto Christ, and be perfected in him, and deny yourselves of all ungodliness; and if ye shall deny yourselves of all ungodliness, and love God with all your might, mind and strength, then is his grace sufficient for you, that by his grace ye may be perfect in Christ; and if by the grace of God ye are perfect in Christ, ye can in nowise deny the power of God.
“And again, if ye by the grace of God are perfect in Christ, and deny not his power, then are ye sanctified in Christ by the grace of God, through the shedding of the blood of Christ, which is in the covenant of the Father unto the remission of your sins, that ye become holy, without spot”.[6]
That is the message of the Book of Mormon, and the invitation our missionaries offer to the world: “Come unto Christ.”
At Christmas time, it is appropriate to ask: Is my Christmas celebrating helping me to come unto Christ? Do my Christmas activities demonstrate to others that I am seeking Christ?
Please understand that I am not suggesting that we abandon our beloved holiday traditions; but I am suggesting that we remember those things that give deeper meaning to our Christmas celebrations.
I believe that what people desire most at Christmastime, whether they are Christians or not, is peace and happiness. These can be very elusive in this society.
Can we give this gift to others?
Yes! Yes, and it only costs our time and commitment!
But we must first possess it ourselves. So where can we get it?
I believe, in fact I know, that the prophetic directives we received in October Conference will lead us in this direction.
As we begin our home-centered, Church-supported gospel learning journey next month, we will take personal responsibility for our own spiritual growth and development. We will put our feet on the path to discipleship, and witness through our actions that we desire to take the Savior’s name upon us and follow him.
This will be a challenging path, but the promises are many. President Nelson promised us that as we do this, it “has the potential to unleash the power of families, as each family follows through conscientiously and carefully to transform their home into a sanctuary of faith. I promise that as you diligently work to remodel [and any of you who have done remodels, is it a quick, simple process?] your home into a center of gospel learning, over time your Sabbath days will truly be a delight. Your children will be excited to learn and to live the Savior’s teachings, and the influence of the adversary in your life and in your home will decrease. Changes in your family will be dramatic and sustaining”.[7]
I don’t know exactly what “unleashing the power of families” means, but it sounds powerful, and it sounds miraculous. I hope to discover at least a portion of what that means in the coming months and years.
I do know that as we grow, we will have a positive influence on those around us. Some will desire to have the peace and joy that we will radiate. We will become more effective ministers to our friends in and out of the Church.
So how do we start?
A good starting point is to take a look back at the past year, which is something many of us do anyway as we face the New Year.
As we reflect on the old year, we would do well to ask “Have I shown the Savior through my actions that I love him?” A follow-up question could be “How can I show my love for the Savior effectively in the coming year?
Another reflective question could be “What motivates me to follow the Savior?” Yet another question might be “How can I invite the Savior into my life this year?
Here are many things we can consider. There is great value in reflecting as a part of the learning process. And as disciples of Christ, aren’t we always learning?
I would like to echo the words of our Prophet in suggesting four steps we can take to come unto Christ.
First, commit fully to the spirit and intent of the home-centered Church-supported curriculum. Study the New Testament with your spouse, your family, or with others. Really seek to know the Savior and to grow closer to him. Study with intent, and gospel truths will be revealed to you.
Second, prayerfully seek ways to be a more effective ministering brother or sister. As we seek to serve as the Savior did, we will become more like him. The Lord expects us to seek revelation as we strive to minister.
Third, spend time in the temple. Visiting the House of the Lord will enable us to receive revelation and power from him as we serve there. President Nelson said that our need to be in the temple has never been greater.
Fourth, use the correct name of the Church. Now more than ever, we need to stand up and be counted as followers of Christ.
President Nelson said “I promise that if we will do our best to restore the correct name of the Lord's church, He whose church this is will pour down His power and His blessings upon the heads of the Latter-day Saints, the likes of which we have never seen”.[8]
Of course, there are also many other ways we can come unto Christ.
But now, let us enjoy the Christmas season. Let us relish the peace and happiness that come as we celebrate the birth of our Savior.
Let us also remember that he entered into mortality just as we did. Abinadi testified that he “should come down among the children of men, and take upon him flesh and blood, and go forth upon the face of the earth.”[9]
May we stand all amazed as we consider the life and mission of our Savior Jesus Christ, and recommit to follow him, and may we let our lights shine before men that they may glorify not us, but our Heavenly Father, who sent his Son that we might live and enjoy the blessings of his eternal plan.
I testify that Christ lives, and that he is our loving Redeemer and Savior. He ransomed us from our sins to empower us to return to Heavenly Father’s presence, if we will be true to our covenants. In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.
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[1] KJV, Matthew 2:2-3, ff.
[2] KJV, Luke 2:15-18.
[3] KJV, Luke 2:25-38.
[4] Doctrine and Covenants 88:62-63.
[5] The Book of Mormon: Another Testament of Jesus Christ; Omni 1:26.
[6] The Book of Mormon: Another Testament of Jesus Christ; Moroni 10:32-33.
[7] Nelson, RM; Becoming Exemplary Latter-day Saints; October 2018 General Conference. Parenthetical note mine.
[8] Nelson, RM; Revelation for the Church, Revelation for Our Lives: April 2018 General Conference.
[9] The Book of Mormon: Another Testament of Jesus Christ; Mosiah 7:27.

Sunday, November 18, 2018

Faith, Devotion and Gratitude



 This talk was given in Hallmark Ward, and in Northpark (Young Single Adult) Ward today. I did not give identical talks. This is the text for the Hallmark Ward. By assignment, our topic was Faith, Devotion and Gratitude, but my primary focus was gratitude.
I share it with gratitude for the opportunity and the responsibility to speak.
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My dear brothers and sisters, I am thankful to be here today; thankful to worship with you and to feel of your spirit.
I bring you love and greetings from President Garvin and his Counselors. They are mindful of you and your concerns, and they pray for you.
As you know, I am here by assignment from President Garvin today, and I pray that the Spirit will be with each of us as I speak, to touch our hearts and lift our spirits. And I hope that what I say and what the Spirit says to each of you will be of benefit to all of us.
I love Thanksgiving. It is a wonderful time of year. The weather usually cools down. We get a few days off from school. I love the food, the football games, and of course, the opportunity to be with family. It all comes together for a great holiday. And the constant reminders to be thankful are a great lead-in to Christmas season.
Mr. Dooley, who was a print humorist in the 1890’s, made this comment about Thanksgiving: “‘twas founded by the Puritans to give thanks for being preserved from the Indians, and we keep it today to give thanks that we are preserved from the Puritans.”
Elder Talmage told us: “Gratitude is an ennobling quality in man; and he in whose soul it has no place is [defective] … Gratitude is a twin sister to humility; pride is a foe to both. The [individual] who has come into close communion with God cannot fail to be thankful.”
In my readings of the Book of Mormon, it strikes me frequently that the first thing that Lehi and his righteous descendants did after completing a journey was to build an altar and offer thanks unto the Lord.
Under the Law of Moses, the thank offering is equated with the peace offering, which was based on the supposition that the individual offering the sacrifice was at peace with God. So thankfulness and peace with God tie in very closely with each other, and build upon each other.
Gratitude will increase our devotion to God, which strengthens our faith and leads to increased gratitude, in a wonderful cycle.
Moroni was also a great example of this. He was described as “a man whose heart did swell with thanksgiving to his God, for the many privileges and blessings which he bestowed upon his people; a man who did labor exceedingly for the welfare and safety of his people”.[1]
A story is told:
“Two little children were put early to bed on a winter’s night, for the fire had gone out, and the cold was pouring in at the many cracks of their frail shanty.
“The mother strove to eke out the scantiness of the bed-covering by placing clean boards over the children. A pair of bright eyes shone out from under a board, and just before it was hushed in slumber, a sweet voice said, “Mother, how nice this is! How I pity the poor people who don’t have any boards to cover their children with this cold night.”[2]
We would do well to ask ourselves, am I like these children? Or is my attitude more like: “Mom! Charlotte’s board is bigger than mine!” Or “Hey! I’m going to get slivers!” This little girl was able to look at everything from the perspective of what she had—not what she didn’t have. And she was concerned about those who didn’t have as much as she did rather than upset and crabby because some had so much more than she did. The mother gave what she could in love to her children.
Why is it hard for us be grateful in such a situation? Do you have a hard time being grateful for simple gifts from the heart? Most of us have been guilty at one time or another focusing on what we don’t have, instead of being grateful for what we do have.
The Apostle Paul told Timothy “godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out”.[3]
Godliness with contentment. What does that mean? We might think of it as tranquil happiness: the peace and joy that come from being content instead of envious. Gratitude to the Lord is an important step on the path to true discipleship.
The Lord spoke to us in Section 59 of the Doctrine and Covenants: “And in nothing doth man offend God, or against none is his wrath kindled, save those who confess not his hand in all things, and obey not his commandments”.[4]
Does that seem harsh to you? Let’s contrast that with additional instruction from the Doctrine and Covenants:
“Verily, verily, I say unto you, ye are little children, and ye have not as yet understood how great blessings the Father hath in his own hands and prepared for you;
“And ye cannot bear all things now; nevertheless, be of good cheer, for I will lead you along. The kingdom is yours and the blessings thereof are yours, and the riches of eternity are yours.
And then the next verse, which I want to emphasize:
“And he who receiveth all things with thankfulness shall be made glorious; and the things of this earth shall be added unto him, even an hundred fold, yea, more”.[5]
Did you catch the Lord’s promises to you? The kingdom and the attendant blessings, and the riches of eternity are promised to us. If we are thankful, we will be made glorious! We truly do not, and perhaps cannot understand what great blessings Heavenly Father has prepared for us.
It is important for us to understand the doctrine of gratitude. I believe that there are three main concepts in this doctrine.

The Doctrine of Gratitude
1.     Everything is the Lord’s
The Psalmist wrote: “The earth is the Lord’s, and the fulness thereof…”[6]
Do we sometimes have an unrighteous sense of ownership of things that aren’t really ours? If you have received your endowments, you will understand where that comes from.
We should give thanks to the giver of our gifts. Think of the last time you gave a gift that wasn’t appreciated. How did it make you feel?
If we use the gifts he has given us without a thankful heart, or fail to recognize the gift or the giver, the Father’s wrath will be kindled, as he said to Joseph Smith.
King Benjamin reminded us:
“I say unto you, my brethren, that if you should render all the thanks and praise which your whole soul has power to possess, to that God who has created you, and has kept and preserved you, and has caused that ye should rejoice, and has granted that ye should live in peace one with another …
 “And now, in the first place, he hath created you, and granted unto you your lives, for which ye are indebted unto him.
And secondly, he doth require that ye should do as he hath commanded you; for which if ye do, he doth immediately bless you; and therefore he hath paid you. And ye are still indebted unto him, and are, and will be, forever and ever; therefore, of what have ye to boast?
And now I ask, can ye say aught of yourselves? I answer you, Nay. Ye cannot say that ye are even as much as the dust of the earth; yet ye were created of the dust of the earth; but behold, it belongeth to him who created you”.[7]
Please note that Benjamin is absolutely not telling us that we are nothing, so we shouldn’t bother trying. He is simply providing perspective on where our gifts come from, which should make us humbly grateful.

2.    We should thank the Lord in all things.
There are many scientific studies that demonstrate that gratitude promotes happiness and well-being.
President Monson spoke frequently of gratitude. He taught us that “Sincerely giving thanks not only helps us recognize our blessings, but it also unlocks the doors of heaven and helps us feel God's love”.[8]
So how do we show our gratitude to Heavenly Father?
“There are chances for work all around just now, opportunities right in our way; do not let them pass by, saying sometime I’ll try, but go and do something today”.[9] We also sing “because I have been given much, I too must give”.[10]
Giving is a wonderful way to develop gratitude. And the amazing thing about giving is that it doesn’t have to cost us anything. A gift freely given each week in this chapel is the gift of a handshake and a smile. It costs nothing, but who can count the value of a smile to the recipient?
Our thankfulness is shown, not only through our words, but also through our actions, for “when ye are in the service of your fellow beings, ye are only the service of your God”.[11]

3.    Count Your Blessings
Have you noticed that we live in a world where most people are prone to count their trials? As followers of Jesus Christ, we should count our blessings. Especially in times of adversity.
Paul advised the Thessalonians: “Rejoice evermore. Pray without ceasing. In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you”.[12]
And Ammon said: “and now, I ask, what great blessings has he bestowed upon us? Can ye tell?”[13]
So, can you tell what great blessings have been bestowed upon you?
If you have a hard time answering that one, I would suggest that you change your focus. Look outward instead of looking inward. Or perhaps you are aware of so many blessings that you don’t know where to begin!
Remember the words of the hymn:
“Count your many blessings; name them one by one, And it will surprise you what the Lord has done. Count your many blessings; angels will attend, Help and comfort give you to your journey’s end”.[14]

How do we do that?
1.     Look for your blessings.
Be aware. Look around. Look for the beauty in our world.
We can even feel thankful for ordinary things, for the small blessings we encounter each day. As I was preparing this talk yesterday, I had my window open and could hear the sparrows and finches singing in our yard, the scrub jays squawking, and the hummingbirds chattering at each other. I love these birds that visit our feeders.
I am so thankful for a Heavenly Father who created these amazing creatures.
Take time to reflect. The concept of a gratitude journal may seem trite to some of you, but it is a great reminder of the blessings each of us enjoys. And as a teacher, I know that writing by hand enhances our memory far more than typing.
President Eyring spoke of his ongoing experience of keeping a gratitude journal. Each evening before he wrote, he would ponder the question
“Before I would write, I would ponder this question. Have I seen the Hand of God reaching out to touch us?
“As I would cast my mind over the day, I would see evidence of what God had done for one of us that I had not recognized in the busy moments of the day. As that happened, and it happened often, I realized that trying to remember had allowed God to show me what He had done”.[15]
Give thanks for those blessings you encounter along the way.

2.    Express gratitude.
This is a big one. Expressions of gratitude are like ripples in water: they spread outward and touch things that are far away, and they often bounce back to touch us from multiple directions.
Gratitude grows as it is expressed. By expressing our gratitude to others for their help and kindness, we give them the joy of being appreciated and we increase our own ability to recognize our blessings.
Both verbal and written expressions are important. Your grandmother might expect a written thank you note for gifts; many thank yous can be in person and spontaneous. Regardless of the medium used to convey it, it should come from the heart.

3.    Thoughtful prayer
Prayer will awaken a grateful heart. Our personal prayers provide us with sacred time to ponder our blessings and express gratitude to Heavenly Father.
I would suggest that we occasionally just fast and pray with gratitude, instead of fasting and praying for a particular blessing or outcome. How many of you have done that? I have experienced rich blessings from these fasts.
As we pray in gratitude for the gifts Heavenly Father has given us, let us be mindful of his greatest gift to us: the gift of His Beloved Son, who atoned for our sins through the shedding of his precious blood. The sacrament should be a time of deep gratitude for this incomparable blessing.

Because I am a teacher, I would like to give you some homework. Perhaps the Bishopric can follow up on this. Think again of Ammon’s question: “what great blessings has he bestowed upon us? Can ye tell?” Your homework is to consider this question. As you ponder it, think of five blessings, large or small, that you have enjoyed during the past week. Write them down, along with the giver of the blessing. Give sincere thanks to the person or persons who provided each blessing. Express your gratitude to Heavenly Father for all those blessings.
Primary children, you can do this, too. Ask your dad or mom for help if you need it.
You don’t have to limit your list. If you have a grateful heart, you will see that even a greeting of friendship as you entered the chapel this afternoon, a smile or a hug, is a great blessing.
I promise that if you do this, with a thankful heart, that you will feel a warmth and happiness that you will want to keep with you. The Father will bless you with an increased measure of his love.

I bear you my witness that God lives, He is our loving Heavenly Father, and we should be eternally grateful for the multitude of gifts he has given us.
Jesus Christ is our Savior. He has atoned for our sins. Have we accepted this amazing gift?
This is the true Church of Jesus Christ, restored in the latter days to bless the lives of all God’s children. We are led by a living prophet, Russell M. Nelson, who speaks with God and receives revelation to guide us as we strive to become worthy to receive the great blessings Heavenly Father has offered us.
I pray that we will begin and end each day with a grateful prayer and a thankful heart, in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.


[1] The Book of Mormon: Another Testament of Jesus Christ, Alma 48:12.
[2] Edmunds, Mary Ellen; Godliness with Contentment; BYU Speeches, Nov. 1995.
[3] KJV, 1 Timothy 6:6.
[4] Doctrine and Covenants 59:21.
[5] Doctrine and Covenants 78:19.
[6] KJV, Psalm 24:1.
[7] The Book of Mormon: Another Testament of Jesus Christ, Mosiah 2:20, 23-25.
[8] Monson, Thomas S.; The Divine Gift of Gratitude; October 2010 General Conference. https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2010/10/the-divine-gift-of-gratitude?lang=eng
[9] Thompson, WL; Have I Done Any Good?; Hymns, #223.
[10] Crowell, GN; Because I Have Been Given Much; Hymns, #219.
[11] The Book of Mormon: Another Testament of Christ, Mosiah 2:17.
[12] KJV, 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18.
[13] The Book of Mormon: Another Testament of Jesus Christ, Alma 26:2.
[14] Oatman, ED; Count Your Blessings; Hymns, #241.
[15] Eyring, Henry B.: O Remember, Remember; October 2007 General Conference. https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2007/10/o-remember-remember?lang=eng